early marriage

Marriage is completing our second half of your life, that’s in my religion “islam”.  Marriage is a big commitment, its 99% of responsibility and 1% of fun. I am not saying that as I am not recommending of it, no at all, but I am saying that we must be carful before we step this major step. Precisely in my region early marriage is something common arguing that the home and marriage prevents the girl from the wrong things, which is totally wrong. I have my own convincing reasons. Firstly, limited experience of the girl in marital life. Secondly, early pregnancy and abortion. Thirdly, Psychological fatigue resulting from this early marriage.

Marital life requires extensive experience and this experience don’t exist in the young girl. Her thoughts are limited on games and toys. She will never think about what the man would want or what is her responsibility to him. Men and house need special care and treatment.

Pregnancy for a young girl it will effect her health. A young body couldn’t carry another person inside her. Lack of pregnant experience and how to tack care of her self and her baby. Pregnancy of a young girl would mostly lead her to a abortion.

At the end the young girl will grow up and recognize what is going around her and she will feel that what happen is a crime to her. On the other hand her family and husband wouldn’t control her nerves.

We need awareness about early marriage in our society. In my opinion nowadays this problem is start to vanish. Even if the problem is totally disappear it will keep behind an effects 
in the society. So be careful and leave the decision to the girl.


N.H.A